Showing posts with label jealousy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label jealousy. Show all posts

Sibling rivalry in present and past life

Continued from the earlier account on client’s past lifetime which had the common theme of abandonment by family members. In the first past life, she was a child beggar in India. In the second past life, she was a child prostitute in Russia. In the third past life, she was left behind in a park as a toddler by her jealous elder sister and in her teenage years, was drowned by the same sister. It explains her current life feelings of insecurity, feeling unloved and fear of abandonment.

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“I’m on a grassy field. There are many yellow flowers. It is a sunny day. I’m searching for someone. The grass is tall. I just keep walking.”

“I’m a little girl…. white skinned with braided hair. I look like a rich girl and wearing a nice white dress. I wear knee-length socks. I’m three years old.”

“I pass by a small house. It looks like a barn. I just keep on walking. I’m on the street already.”


I moved client backwards in time to an earlier time in that life to find out what happened.

“I’m in a playground. My elder sister brought me there. She is 12 years old.
 She left me there.”

“My mother is at home, a 10 minute walk away”.

“I’m looking for my family members. I didn’t feel scared, I just kept on walking. I see cars passing by and walked past some trees. I’m running now. I’m on the street, looking for my way back home.”

“I come to an apartment door. My mother comes and greet me. I found my way home.”

“My sister intentionally left me at the park. She disliked me. She was jealous of me. Her face was not happy when saw me back home. She felt that my mother loved me more than her.”

“She’s not happy that my mother is hugging me. My sister is staring at me with hate. She is in a white dress.”

“She is hostile. I feel like she will do it again. She went back to her room.”


Next scene:
I’m in the water, I’m drowning. I fell from a boat. Someone pushed me. I'm in a lake."

I moved client backwards a little to find out what happened.

“I’m sixteen years old. I’m in a boat with my sister. She shook the boat and make me accidentally fall into the lake.”

“She hated me. I’m drowning and she is doing nothing.”

Me: “Why did she hate you?”

Client: “It was because of something related to a man……We loved the same man. She got jealous. In many areas, she wanted to be the champion, but I overshadowed her.

Current life connection
“I recognise her as my current life eldest sister. She made my siblings dislike me and she got jealous when I got married to a good man and moved on to a happy life. She only loved to hear my sad stories.”


Jealous of husband's first wife and children

A man in his forties wanted to find out the connection with his wife and children from a first marriage and why his wife from the second marriage was very jealous of his children and forbade him to contact them. He regressed to a lifetime in England. 

I am outdoors, I am wearing leather shoes and a suit. There are flowers in the garden. There is no one around. I am watching a fountain. I am in my twenties. I have dark hair and white skin. There is a man standing there with an umbrella looking at the flowers.

In the next scene:
There is confusion. There is a war going on. It is a civil war. Things were destroyed. I am walking in this destruction. There is shooting. There is fire.

I am in the 18th century in England, Europe. It is near to the harbour. I can see the ships there.

I am walking. There is someone squatting on the ground. She is crying. I’m walking fast. I’m running away. I am alone but I am not hurt. I feel scared. I am in my early twenties.

There is a big fire. There is a bell tower with a fountain in the centre. At the front, there are buildings on fire. People are just watching. I’m helping to put out the fire. We use buckets of water to put out the fire. There are others helping. We form a chain.

“Quickly”, “Quickly”. I heard myself shouting. “Quickly”.

The fire is very fierce. It can’t stop. I can feel the heat.

There is someone there inside the building. I called for help. I tried to pull the person. I pull the person. It is hot due to the heat from the fire. I pull a girl. It is a young girl. She is crying. Then I help another one. I pull out another girl, age 3 – 4 years old. I pull out the mother. I can’t get in anymore. The lady was screaming but I couldn’t save her. I recognize the two girls as my current life daughters. The mother that I pulled out,  I recognised her as my current life former wife. I couldn’t save the other woman. She’s crying for help. I could not help her. I just stood there helplessly.....The girls were sobbing. They went to the shelter.

The fire was finally put out the next day. There were ashes everywhere. I felt helpless because I couldn’t do anything. I felt sorry for that woman, because I couldn’t help her out of the fire.

People were cleaning up in the aftermath of the fire. A girl comes up to me. I recognized her as my girlfriend in my current life (whom he had met before his second marriage). 


Come, come over here. I’ll get you a drink,” she said. She’s in her late teens.

“You must be tired,” she said.

“I am.” I replied.

“Have a drink. I will look after you,” she said.

I put  my head on the table and try to go to sleep.

She puts a blanket over me. She patted my head and held me. I sleep at the table.

Lesson learnt:
I’m helping people. In my previous life, I have comforted others and am also comforted in return. I also felt the fear and the grief of not being able to help. My current life link to my second wife is to help her in this life.

Note: Client also felt more affinity with European rather than Asian countries. Through the regression he understood that he had failed to save the woman (his current life second wife) and she died in the fire. He saved 3 others, who turned out to be his two children and current life former wife. He understood that this was the reason why his second wife was jealous of his former wife and children because she was not saved in the fire.