Healing from toxic mother-daughter relationship

Client came in for another session earlier today. I was happy to see her looking radiant. She said that her unknown sadness which she felt daily for the past 3 years had disappeared after she had a session with me a few months ago. In the past, she used to experience sadness and cried every few days for no apparent reason. She believed that it could have been caused from her suffering emotional wounds since young from her overbearing and toxic mother. She loved her mother but found it difficult to speak to her mother who wouldn't listen to her point of view.  

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When she was young, her mother was emotionally unavailable and displayed lack of maternal warmth, but when she was older, her mother became controlling and wanted to micromanage many aspects of her life, until now, when she was in her forties, already married and had a family. 

Client related that since her session with me, her relationship with her mother has improved as she could manage her mother better now and not get upset by her mother’s cutting words. 

In her latest session, we did some forgiveness work, healing emotional wounds, sending love and awakening the joy within. She came out of the session feeling lighter and beaming with radiance. Wishing her all the best in her life!

Irrational fear of water - while washing face and hair and swimming

Client, in her late thirties, had an extreme fear of water. She felt uncomfortable in the bathroom, especially when washing face or hair as she did not like water falling down her face. When younger, she tried learning swimming, but gave up, as she could not put her face in the water. During the regression, she found the origin of her fear of water:

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Client regressed to a lifetime in a western country. She saw herself as a very tall, blonde, white woman, married, with 3 young children - a boy, a girl and a baby. She was married to a professional who works in a bank.

In the next scene, she saw herself swimming in the river. The river was cold. It was a very big river.

Her husband and her three kids, age six years old, five years old and a baby were playing in the river, near the river bank. They were very happy.

Then, it started to rain. Her husband helped the children to go back up to the river bank. However, she was still in the water, further away. Then she felt strong current in the water pushing her. She couldn’t swim anymore and started struggling in the water. The current was strong. It pushed her further and further away from her husband and children.

She tried to put her head up until the very end, but finally sank inside the river. She was only in her thirties. 

Her husband started crying and her children started shouting, but it was futile. She had to leave her husband and children.

In the next scene, she saw her body inside a box. It was her funeral. (She was viewing the scene from outside of the body). There were many people there. They were wearing black clothes and cloaks. They came, carrying flowers to the funeral wake. People were singing. The man and the kids were crying. It is raining outside. The weather is cold. 

After the session, client felt so much lighter and happier emotionally, like a burden has lifted. She also found the connection to her dislike of cold and preferred the warmth of the sunshine. 

Client's feedback after PLR session - Unknown sadness and grudge towards mother

Client used to have unknown sadness inside her heart since she was young and didn't know the cause. She also had an emotional relationship with her mother and they couldn't see eye to eye. (Looking through my client's cases, I find that many women have issues with their mothers). She also had the habit of wrist-biting for a number of years. A week after her first PLR session, I was happy to receive the following message from her:

"After my PLR session last week, I noticed that the unknown sadness that I have had for a few years is gone. I don't have anymore hate and grudge towards my parents anymore. My relationship with my mother has become better. I now can sit and listen to her without any anger inside me. I also noticed the habit of biting my wrist has also become less frequent".

Looking forward to her next session.

Talk on Phobias, Panic attacks and Relationship issues

I will be giving a talk on “Phobias, panic attacks and relationship issues - A past life regression perspective” on Saturday, 28 October 2017, 8.30 pm at the invitation of Persatuan Buddhist Hilir Perak, Teluk Intan. 

Lifetime as a gladiator in Rome

A few years ago, client had anxiety attacks due to issues at work and was on continuous medication for 2 years, after which he slowly eased off. He is afraid that the anxiety attacks may recur due to work and stress. He regressed to the year 405AD in Rome and found the connection. 

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“I’m in Rome, in the arena. I am one of the gladiators. There are muscular guys around me. I am holding a knife. I have to walk into the arena. I have to fight with the lions and the other gladiators. There’s a lot of fear in me. I see a lot of a lot of blood. There are many spectators at the top. We are in the middle of the rink, at the bottom. Some people are pulling away some dead bodies.”

“I was forced to become a gladiator, I was treated like a slave, thrown into the ring and had to fight for my life. I’m a muscular person, tall, well above six feet, with plenty of muscles…. a very rough guy.”

“I feel like I’m viewing from inside the person’s body. (First person's point of view). I look down and I can see chains on my legs and hands. I’m 30+ years old. I’m holding a sword.”

“I’m standing inside the gate, before going into the arena. There is a lot of screaming and cheering from the spectators.”

“I have to fight with the other gladiators. This round I survived. They took me out to a cell where they keep all the prisoners. The condition is very bad. Only once a day, they served me with food, and I don’t know what is going to happen tomorrow. I’ll probably be killed.”

(I brought client to an earlier time in that life to see how he was put in that situation)

“I’m must walking on the street. There are many merchants on the left and right, a lot of people. Suddenly there is some army people coming from behind me… they just captured me and pulled me away. They put me into a prison together with the others. They are the gladiators which who will be fighting later”.

(I brought client to an even earlier time to find out about his life and work)

I am a sword maker, knocking steel into a sword. Due to my work, I had to use a big hammer to knock at the steel, that’s how I became muscular. The year is 405AD.”

“I lived in a hut. The roof is made of dried grass. The wall is made of clay. They are individual houses clumped together in a neighbourhood. I was staying there alone. I was not married. No much furniture, there’s only a bed and stove area.”

(I brought client back to the arena)

I’m sitting there tired, hungry and there’s some injuries, some blood on the body. I can hear the noises from the other cells. People are groaning and crying due to injuries.  Someone is in pain, it is a very nasty place to stay, damp and smelly. I can smell a lot of blood in the cells. I’m not seriously injured. There are bruises on my body. I’m wearing just a cloth covering the loin area. I have no shirt on.”

Next scene:
“This time I have to fight a much taller guy, a dark skinned guy. My height is already six feet plus. He is another head taller than me. I have to fight against him. Both of us have a sword. He’s another slave as well. This round I lost and he killed me. His sword went through my body. I lay down on the floor and can see a lot of blood.”

“I can see a lot of rich people, sitting on top there, to them it is just a game."

Connection to current life

"My anxiety starts when I face a win-lose situation. To me it is like a life and death situation. I’m afraid of losing. If I lose, I might lose everything, even my life. This is the fear that I have. Anxiety will occur when too many things are beyond my control are coming at the same time."

(Client subconsciously thinks that all conflict is a life and death situation and when he loses, he may lose his life. And that subconsciously triggered his anxiety symptoms. I did healing via hypnotherapy to help him release those trauma and blockages).